I forgot to tell you
Ashwini has left today to get married:( her dad came to fetch her. She cried, i cried, all this early in the morning when I gave her her present. We have this tradition of taking a flame and putting haldi-kunku on the forehead. 10 years she has been with me....since the time antu was 6 months old. She's my first maid. Means, first one where I was called "madam" and not "baby" or then "didi". I really got lucky with her, God doesn't make people like her! Her husband is really one lucky guy....she cooks a butter chicken that would make Mubasshir weep!